Thursday, June 03, 2010

HAPPY

i'll just dive into this post because i can't really think up an introduction, other than this sentence. my grandma got talking with my uncle while she was at hospital the other day, and she clearly expressed her anger at him for putting her in an old folks' home instead of letting her come back to my house, and also her hatred towards the fact that he planned a buddhist funeral for her. she scolded him and told him she believes in Jesus. apparently it was quite dramatic cos i heard my uncle was very hurt and emotional at that point.

and he decided to let her come home, to my place.

he said that he now sees that her christianity isn't forced upon her as he had thought all along. and he wants to respect her beliefs. AND he was very sad that she thought he dumped her in a home. he didn't know she thought that way.

so this is a good thing. we've been praying for her to come back for a long time now. so that she can be happy and peaceful. but this good thing entails alot too. i'll have to take care of her, and our floor has no lift so daddy will have to carry her up and down the stairs for dialysis. neither of us can work for the time being. we're arranging for her transfer to the yishun dialysis center cos she can't travel so far so often anymore. once that is done she'll move in with us! :)

i'm just bracing myself for the yucky bit-- the diapers. and maybe her tantrums. but it'll be fine. it's the right thing to do, so i'm gonna throw myself into it and figure it out. you can only plan so much.

mama's still at SGH now. she was supposed to be discharged yesterday but she complained of breathlessness so she stayed another night. or two? we're thinking she might be 'being breathless' cos she doesn't wanna go back to the old folks' home to wait for her transfer (she's supposed to stay there for a while until the transfer works out cos the home is near the hougang center.). she wants to come straight here. haha~

so that's that. there's alot to tell but i just nutshelled everything. thank God.

the three other members of my family are playing 'angry birds' on tim's ipod. that game is making idiots out of all of them. they are ridiculously into it and it sounds hilarious.

stupiak!

my phone is spoiled so if i don't reply/answer you, probably not my fault. :(

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